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Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids

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    JWN Poster, Uzzah, posted a link to this article in one of his older posts which he brought to the top, but I think this excellent article deserves a thread of its own. http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/members/private/178981/1/Interesting-Phone-Call-Media-the-Blood-Issue

    NATIONAL POST http://www.nationalpost.com/news/story.html?id=2041666

    Sept. 28, 2009

    A Witness account

    Church denies moving children to avoid transfusions

    Tom Blackwell,  National Post 

    http://a123.g.akamai.net/f/123/12465/1d/www.nationalpost.com/donna-ryder.jpgAaron Lynett/National Post

    The boy was just five years old and desperately ill, but as he crouched in the back seat of Donna Ryder's car, he became more fugitive than cancer patient.

    Police in New Brunswick were already out looking for the child when, according to Ms. Ryder, she hid him and his mother in her Dodge Omni and drove them to Fredericton, away from children's aid officials who might have forced the son of Jehovah's Witnesses to accept a blood transfusion.

    Fellow officials of the Church then took over, whisking the child to their Canadian headquarters, she says. The patient and his family ended up eventually in Mexico for alternative treatments that abided by the sect's controversial -- and vigorously enforced -- ban on receiving blood. He died soon after.

    It was a particularly dramatic episode, but Ms. Ryder alleges that the Church regularly transports sick children far from the reach of child welfare authorities -- and the possibility of forced transfusions -- before the cases can turn into high-profile court battles.

    Witnesses stake out the hospital rooms of children around the clock, mostly to offer support but sometimes hustling the patients away when it seems likely an attempt will be made to impose a transfusion, charged Ms. Ryder, who did legal work on Witness cases for several years before leaving the church.

    "It makes me feel ill when I recall my part in that," said the 58-year-old, now a social work student at Ryerson University. "I was terrified I was going to get arrested.... When a doctor says a child needs a blood transfusion to live, that becomes a necessity of life. To work behind closed doors and under the rug to spirit the child away is not protection, it's illegal."

    Though her experiences with the Witnesses ended in the mid-1990s, the Toronto resident offered a rare inside, and on-the-record, perspective on the church's alleged tactics, just weeks after the release of a landmark court decision triggered by ongoing tension between the sect's religious beliefs and the medical care of young children.

    If what she said about moving patients from jurisdiction to jurisdiction is accurate, it would mean the church's governing Watchtower Bible and Tract Society was essentially overriding the state's mandate to safeguard children, said one legal expert who studies the Witnesses.

    Ms. Ryder's allegations were firmly dismissed, however, by a top church official, who said the Witnesses as an organization never transport children to avoid legal action, though parents may choose to take them to a health-care facility or practitioner who is willing to provide treatment without blood.

    "Treatment options are a personal decision of parents," Warren Shewfelt, the Witnesses' Canadian national director, said in an emailed response to questions. "Responsible parents make treatment decisions based on where they can get the best medical care in accord with the law and with the co-operation of their treating physicians."

    As for Ms. Ryder's comments, her "accusations and innuendo ... are devoid of any facts and are completely false," he said.

    Meanwhile, Mr. Shewfelt said, the medical profession is becoming increasingly willing to abide by the Witnesses' belief that a transfusion violates the Bible's warning against consuming blood. In fact, a leading Toronto oncologist recently said that doctors can successfully abide by their wishes in many cases.

    "Jehovah's Witnesses are experiencing fewer and fewer problems in obtaining medical treatment that conforms to their Christian conscience," Mr. Shewfelt said.

    Another former Witness who was a paralegal for the church in the 1990s, though, largely confirmed Ms. Ryder's account, saying he can recall at least four cases where the Witnesses moved sick children out of province or out of the country to circumvent an expected attempt by child welfare authorities to gain custody so a transfusion could be carried out.

    "It doesn't happen often but it has happened," said Michael Saunders.

    Barbara Anderson, an employee of the church's world headquarters in Brooklyn, N.Y., in the 1990s, also said she was aware of organized attempts to move sick children from situations where they could have blood forced on them, though she believes it is much less likely to take place today.

    As recently as 2005, a teenage British Columbia girl, Sarah Bahris, was taken to Ontario after a B.C. court ordered that doctors be allowed to transfuse her, though family members say they did so on their own.

    The Witnesses ' stand against transfusions of whole blood, officially adopted in 1945, stems from various Bible verses that call for followers to "abstain from" or not "eat" blood, although the organization will now allow members to receive some individual blood components as a personal matter of conscience.

    Disputes arise when parents refuse blood on behalf of children below the age of majority, such as in the recent case of the B.C. sextuplets. When doctors are unwilling to comply with the family's wishes, they typically approach local child welfare authorities, who ask the courts for an order giving them temporary custody so they can ensure the transfusion is administered.

    The situation rarely progress to that point in life-and-death cases of traumatic injury, when treatment has to be given immediately, said Mr. Saunders. Most of the Canadian cases have involved cancer patients, who can become dangerously anemic -- sometimes requiring a transfusion -- under the effects of chemotherapy.

    Ms. Ryder, born into a Witnesses family, said she worked as an assistant to her former husband, Daniel Pole, another Witness and lawyer, who has handled a number of cases for Church members.

    They eventually lived at Bethel, the church's Canadian headquarters in Georgetown, north of Toronto, the woman said. She left the church when the couple divorced in 1996.

    The Witnesses cases they worked on involved either blood-transfusion disputes or child-custody battles where a Jehovah's Witnesses member and a non-member had divorced, she said.

    In the New Brunswick transfusion incident, which unfolded in 1989, Ms. Ryder said she picked up the boy -- who had leukemia -- and his mother at their rural home and had them squat down low in the back seat to avoid detection by police who were searching for the boy. In Toronto, he was treated at the Hospital for Sick Children before being taken to Mexico, she said.

    Ms. Ryder said she specifically recalled two other cases of children in Western Canada who were moved to Ontario with the church's help and one in Newfoundland taken to Quebec. In many cases, the child would then be whisked to the United States or Mexico for treatment by doctors willing to forgo blood transfusions, she said.

    When any Witness, child or adult, ends up in hospital, they are shadowed "24/7" by members of the church's "hospital liaison committee," who offer support and prayer and encourage the patient to abide by the blood ban, said Ms. Ryder. Sometimes, if they catch wind of a possible forced transfusion, they will try to sneak the children out of the hospital, she charged.

    For Juliet Guichon, a lawyer and bioethicist at the University of Calgary who follows the Witnesses closely, alleged incidents such as the one in New Brunswick raise questions that should probably be investigated by provincial authorities.

    "If what [Ms. Ryder] says is true, then the Watchtower Society is deliberately attempting to evade the legitimate authority of the state to protect children," said Ms. Guichon.

    "The Watchtower Society is not a good protector of children. The state is a much better protector of children in need of medical care."

    Mr. Pole, however, said he is aware of no cases where child patients were spirited out of a province to avoid apprehension by child welfare, and had never been part of such activity himself.

    "That's news to me," the Orangeville, Ont.-based lawyer said of his former wife's allegations. "I've always represented people who wanted to go to court....

    Anyone I've represented has a respect for the rule of law."

    Ms. Guichon cited Jehovah's Witnesses publications, such as the Watchtower, that have advised parents to fight hard to hold up the blood ban, even in the face of legal action. One 1991 Watchtower article said Witnesses should try to obey secular laws but when those rules violate God's word, "the divine law comes first," even if authorities "might consider [the Witness] a lawbreaker." A 1981 piece approvingly discusses a Danish couple who snatched their three-year-old son out of hospital to avoid a court-ordered transfusion.

    When a Witnesses family does wind up in the courtroom, the result is an often-emotional conflict between religious faith and medicine. Last month, the Supreme Court of Canada ruled on one such case, concluding that children under 16 can sometimes determine their own medical treatment -- even if it means refusing potentially life-saving blood -- if a court deems them to be sufficiently mature.

    David Day, a Newfoundland lawyer who represented the Witnesses at the high court, said he has been asked to handle 41 blood cases, and in all but seven or eight, felt the child had freely chosen to resist blood, without undue adult influence.

    Ms. Ryder, however, said she is convinced the Supreme Court decision was wrong, at least with respect to Witnesses children. She said such young people are subject to years of indoctrination on the dire consequences of willingly accepting a transfusion -- from excommunication to death on the day of Armageddon, when devout followers are supposed to be saved. Meanwhile, they are under constant scrutiny while receiving hospital treatment, she said.

    "I would say the court needs to re-examine what actually happens when a child is put in this position," said Ms. Ryder. "Is the child really exercising their free will, or are they just parroting something they heard?"

    Will Power Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Mon, 28 Sep 2009 16:24:00 GMT (9/28/2009) edit



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    Pretty good article. I hope the authorities that be press on investigating - especially the indoctrintation of children. As well, these children grow up to be adults and are not using mature and critical decision making when refusing blood, for themselves or others.

     

    wp

    dissed Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:04:00 GMT (9/28/2009) edit



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    Tom Blackwell was the reporter. He seems to have a pretty good handle on the issue.

    Has he written any others?

    Satanus Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:18:00 GMT (9/28/2009) edit




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    'Fellow officials of the Church then took over, whisking the child to their Canadian headquarters, she says.'

    Wow, that's a serious allegation.

    S

    flipper Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Mon, 28 Sep 2009 23:22:00 GMT (9/28/2009) edit


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      BARBARA- Thanks for posting this article ! I hope the Canadian authorities and courts come to their senses a bit more and realize that most ALL of minor Jehovah's Witness children are coerced  to accept blood transfusions - or are " guilted " into thinking they will be destroyed at Armageddon as  Ms. Ryder said.

      The quote by David  Day the lawyer representing the Jehovah's Witnesses was about as dumb as a rock.  He said , " he  has been asked to handle  41 blood cases , and in all but 7 or 8 , felt the child had freely chosen to resist blood, without undue adult influence. "    If we can believe that- then I own all the world's banking systems. What a croc.  So what about the 7 or 8 who WERE INFLUENCED by parents against their will to take blood ? Their freedoms don't count ?

      I swear- It's like the same gibberish the WT society announced in 2007 saying, " Only 11 elders in over 100 years have been charged with child abuse. " So everything is worse or better in degrees and measures ? Breaking the law is breaking the law. Whether it's kidnapping children to spite a court order for blood - or molesting children however many times - it's still felony child abuse. This kind of stuff gets my blood boiling.  Good thread, thanks for printing it. Peace out, Mr. Flipper

    Atlantis Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 00:49:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit



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    Barbara:

    Yes, as "Flipper" mentioned, we hope the authorities pay more attention to the sly methods of JW's.

     

    N.

    booby Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 02:04:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit



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    and in all but 7 or 8 , felt the child had freely chosen to resist blood. . . . but how old were they? How many who at that age are so "brainwashed" (sorry to be so blunt) but that is how I feel. How many who are that adamant at a young age are awakened and out by the time they reach their 20's.

    purplesofa Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 02:29:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit


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    Thanks for this post, 

     

    purps

    Quandry Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 02:40:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit


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    Thanks for bringing this to our attention.

    yknot Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 03:18:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit


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    On the fence...... if there hasn't been any court orders.

    Ultimately the WTS Canadian Legal Department needs to be smacked hard for the stupidity of entangling themselves so closely to this activity.

    The WTS U.S. Legal Department need to consider the closing of the HLCs as they are a high liability should the 'rightly -dispositioned' judge decide to rule against the WTS in a country less liberal then the U.S.....

    Hopscotch Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 04:10:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit



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    Thank you for this Barbara.

     

    To me the last two paragraphs of this article are so important.

     

    This statement:"I would say the court needs to re-examine what actually happens when a child is put in this position," is exactly what I believe.  The courts need to realize what the real reasons behind a young JW child making this decision are.  Do the courts really understand the emotional manipulation that goes on by JW parents and elders towards these young ones?  Do the authorities really understand how trapped by the unwanted consequences of saying yes to blood a young JW really is?  These young ones really don't have any choice at all, no matter how much they try to make outsiders believe they do.

     

    Hopscotch

    dozy Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 10:12:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit


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    Thanks Barbara. Concerning very young  children , I think that this is one area where the WTS has changed it's policy somewhat. The brother from the HLC who gave the last talk we had before the WTS stopped them said that "the WTS no longer recommends kidnapping babies".

    w813/1p.11FindingSpiritualContentmentinDenmark

    However, in Denmark there is one area where feelings have been running high, perhaps more so than in other places. This involves the stand taken by Jehovah’s Witnesses with reference to blood transfusions. This question was dramatically publicized in March 1975, when a young couple took their three-year-old son from the children’s hospital in Copenhagen. They did so because the doctor, in order to administer a blood transfusion against the wishes of the parents, had legal custody taken away from them.

    Knowing that they most likely would be pursued by the police, the parents sought refuge with some of their fellow believers. At the same time, they tried to find a doctor who was willing to treat the child without the use of blood. A national police hunt, with raids, ransacking and border controls, took place. This was accompanied by a veritable persecution campaign in the press, with headlines such as “Child Killers,” “Religious Fanatics” and “Cynical Parents.” Even bomb threats and cases of outright violence occurred. A couple of clergymen and a member of Parliament raised the question of whether the authorities should not take action against Jehovah’s Witnesses. Meanwhile, the parents did find a doctor who was willing to respect their faith and to use alternate methods of treatment. Today the boy is alive and healthy.

    Scully Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 11:37:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit




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    I think I may know who the patient was involved in the New Brunswick case.

    mouthy Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 11:48:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit


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    Thank you for this Barbara. Very enlightning ((HUG)

    DaCheech Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 12:00:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit


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    thank you, and may hard work like this save my kids from future wts intervention should it arise.

    i'm trapped and in such cases would pray for the law to help me

    Dixie Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 14:32:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit



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    I met a girl a few years ago that told me that she was kidnapped from a Canadian hospital as an infant to avoid a blood transfusion. At the time, I thought hers was an isolated incident. I had no idea that this was so widespread! I live about 15 min. from the Canadian bethel and it's chilling to think they were hiding children so close to my home.

    Good for Ms. Ryder for speaking out about this! Does anyone know if she posts on this forum? I'm going to write the National Post and thank them for publishing this article. Most newspapers probably wouldn't bother with a JW story. Thanks for posting the link!

    Atpeaceatlast Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 16:28:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit

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    Back in 1986,  I know of one occurence involving an elder's hospitalized teenage daughter who needed a blood transfusion.  From what I hear from those in the KH I attended, another elder snuck in, pulled the line from her arm and took her out of the hospital.  I didn't want believe this was true (this elder was admired for it), but it was one of the final straws for me to leave.  I didn't want to be associated with criminal acts and this was one of them in my book.

    skeeter1 Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 16:51:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit


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    Wow.  Pardon the pun, but this is BIG news! 

    As usual, Bethel is trying to pin its mandates as being the parents own acts, not Bethel's coordinated effort.  Similar to 1975, where the brothers are now blamed for misunderstanding.

    What's more chilling is that posters are also corroborating this news story with their own accounts.  Also, didn't Lawrence Hughes say that the Watchtower took Bethany into hiding?  Is this a pattern and practice of the Watchtower?

     

    If true, is Bethel doing something that is criminal?  Is it negligent homicide?  Is it evading a court, somehow?

    [edit]Canada

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    Culpable homicide is defined as causing the death of a human being,

    • By means of an unlawful act;
    • By criminal negligence;
    • By causing that human being, by threats or fear of violence or by deception, to do anything that causes his death; or
    • By wilfully frightening that human being, in the case of a child or sick person.[52]

    Culpable homicide is elevated to murder when

    • The person who causes the death of a human being means to cause his death, or means to cause him bodily harm that he knows is likely to cause his death and is reckless whether death ensures or not;
    • A person meant to cause the death of a human being or cause him bodily harm that he knows is likely to him death, and by accident or mistake causes death to another human being, notwithstanding that he does not mean to cause death or bodily harm to that person (see transferred intent); or
    • A person, for an unlawful object, does anything he knows is likely to cause death, and thereby causes death to a human being, notwithstanding that he desires to effect his object without causing death or bodily harm to any human being.[53]

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    In Canada, murder is classified as either first or second degree.[54]

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    1. Manslaughter is any culpable homicide which is not murder or infanticide.[56]
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    Offence/circumstancesParole ineligibility period
    Second degree murder10–25 years
    Second degree murder by an offender previously convicted of murder25 years
    Second degree murder (16 or 17 years old at time of the offence)7 years
    First degree murder25 years
    First degree murder (16 or 17 years old at time of the offence)10 years
    First/second degree murder (14 or 15 years old at time of the offence)5–7 years

    Someone guilty of a single murder could be have his non-parole period reduced to no less than 15 years under the Faint hope clause.

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    A youth (12 years old or older) who is not sentenced as an adult does not face a life sentence. Instead, if convicted of first degree murder, they must serve a maximum sentence of 10 years, with a maximum of 6 of those years spent in custody. If convicted of second degree murder, they must serve a maximum of 7 years, with a maximum of 4 of those years spent in custody.[60]

     

    skeeter1 Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 17:49:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit


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    Ms. Ryder, however, said she is convinced the Supreme Court decision was wrong, at least with respect to Witnesses children. She said such young people are subject to years of indoctrination on the dire consequences of willingly accepting a transfusion -- from excommunication to death on the day of Armageddon, when devout followers are supposed to be saved. Meanwhile, they are under constant scrutiny while receiving hospital treatment, she said.

    The latest Canadian Supreme Court case, 4 of the 7 Justices. said "NO" to the Watchtower Society, finding that the coercive environment within the Witnesses made it impossible for a Jehovah's Witness teeageer to refuse a blood transfusion.  The Supreme Court does "get it", though that opinion was hard for any layperson to follow.

    Skeeter

    Scully Re: Ex-Wife of Canadian JW Attorney Speaks to NATIONAL POST about KIDNAPPING sick JW kids posted Tue, 29 Sep 2009 22:07:00 GMT (9/29/2009) edit




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    • By causing that human being, by threats or fear of violence or by deception, to do anything that causes his death; or
    • By wilfully frightening that human being, in the case of a child or sick person

    Well, on those two counts - with the threat of being destroyed at Armageddon™ or of being Disfellowshipped™ and shunned by everyone you know if you live, or of not being eligible for a Resurrection™ if you die - the deceptive WTS doctrine itself is violently coercive toward anyone who faces the blood transfusion issue.

    In the case of a child whose only exposure in life has ever been the WTS belief system (which fosters fear and distrust of the medical community), of course that is frightening, even moreso when that child is facing a potentially terminal illness.

     

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