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I Retract My Statements

    snowbird I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 19:02:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit


    United States Alabama

    Post 6154 of 11426
    Since 5/2/2007

    In the recent past, I started a thread on how I can't stand teenagers.

    Something has happened to make me ashamed of those statements.

    My daughter informed me that her 15-year old daughter stayed on the phone all night with a friend because her friend was afraid to go to sleep.

    The friend's dad had to leave around midnight to go out of town to work.  The child called my g'daughter and asked her to stay on the phone with her because she was home alone and afraid.

    My g'daughter propped herself up in bed with her ipod and a cup of tea and talked to her friend until dawn began to break.  Now, that is real friendship.

    I just wanted to share this.

    Sylvia

    poppers Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 19:05:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit




    Post 2879 of 3382
    Since 3/27/2004

    What a good friend she is.  Personally, I loved being home alone when I was a kid.

    minimus Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 19:07:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit




    Post 26479 of 29713
    Since 7/3/2002
    good kid!
    snowbird Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 19:12:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit


    United States Alabama

    Post 6157 of 11426
    Since 5/2/2007

    Can you tell I'm proud of her?

    Sylvia

    Dagney Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 19:34:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit

    United States California

    Post 1856 of 2493
    Since 8/14/2006
    Nice! 
    yknot Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 19:44:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit


    Syrian Arab Republic

    Post 3764 of 5639
    Since 8/24/2007

    Ahhhhhhh

    What a great kid!

    Give her extra praise for that act of kindness!

    snowbird Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 19:49:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit


    United States Alabama

    Post 6161 of 11426
    Since 5/2/2007

    You know I will, Yknot.

    Just when you think those blisters will never amount to anything, they turn around and do something like this!

    Sylvia

    restrangled Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 19:54:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit




    Post 4796 of 5950
    Since 6/10/2006

    Snowbird, sometimes as parents we just need to vent and that was understood.

    r.

    snowbird Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 19:59:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit


    United States Alabama

    Post 6163 of 11426
    Since 5/2/2007

    Restrangled,

    Sylvia

    sammielee24 Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:06:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit




    Post 2811 of 4116
    Since 12/9/2004

    Kudo's to your daughter....that's a great kid and she understands the committment that real friendship is based on. You have every reason to be proud of her action! sammieswife.

    BurnTheShips Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:17:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit


    United States

    Post 7690 of 13547
    Since 8/28/2006

    That's a good friend. Girls are like that.

    BTS

    DJK Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:19:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit


    United States Massachusetts

    Post 2913 of 3321
    Since 2/20/2007

    I'll bet the dad who left his daughter alone didn't sleep well.

    A missed opportunity for a sleep over. IMO

    Elsewhere Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:22:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit


    United States Texas

    Post 16958 of 18345
    Since 2/8/2002

    I have to say that for several years I've begun to think that teenagers have a special insight that previous generations do not have.

    These teens were born into a world of the Internet.  They see people on the other side of the planet the same way we see our next door neighbor.

    They also seem to have a personal humility and openness that previous generations do not have.  They have no problem with their friends pointing out flaws and showing embarrassing videos and pictures.  To the teens, such things are fair game.  If they were caught on video doing something stupid, they could care less if the whole world sees it on YouTube.

    avishai Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:25:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit


    United States Oregon

    Post 7483 of 8196
    Since 7/25/2002
    And I admire YOU, snowbird, for your humility and compassion. Saying you're wrong can be really hard, (((snowbird))))
    freetosee Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 23:05:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit


    Germany

    Post 1005 of 1010
    Since 5/2/2006
    I very much agree with Elsewhere. You often hear people complain about todays youth and who forget that they were no better or ever worse. They complain about their music, hair and clothing. But who designs, produces and promotes all the teen stuff??? It is highly educated and payed adult professionals. Large industries fully aim at the vulnerable youngsters and make big money. fts
    musky Re: I Retract My Statements posted Fri, 02 Jan 2009 23:34:00 GMT (1/2/2009) edit

    United States

    Post 434 of 834
    Since 7/15/2001

    I feel that your granddaughter showed great heart in what she did. I just wonder if those negative feelings about teenagers will come back when the phone bill comes.

    snowbird Re: I Retract My Statements posted Sat, 03 Jan 2009 13:13:00 GMT (1/3/2009) edit


    United States Alabama

    Post 6169 of 11426
    Since 5/2/2007

    Thanks to all who replied.

    Sammieswife, I am really proud and humbled by her actions.

    BTS, I agree, girls are like that.

    DJK, this area is really hard hit economically speaking; the dad was just happy to get some work.  He didn't have time to make arrangements for Baby Girl.

    Elsewhere, teenagers are special; one day you want to kill them, the next, you want to hug them!

    Avi, a big hug back to you and your little special girl.  Peace and strength to you.

    FreetoSee, it's so much easier to throw stones than to gather them.  I forget sometimes that I was once a teenager.

    Musky, her parents have to pay the phone bill, thankfully!

    Sylvia

    Witness 007 Re: I Retract My Statements posted Sat, 03 Jan 2009 13:40:00 GMT (1/3/2009) edit

    Australia

    Post 3103 of 4699
    Since 8/28/2007
    Thats really nice of her!.......now if it was your GrandSON and his mate I bet the guy would have A. Run out of things to talk about and B. Fallen asleep after 1 AM!
    snowbird Re: I Retract My Statements posted Sat, 03 Jan 2009 13:57:00 GMT (1/3/2009) edit


    United States Alabama

    Post 6172 of 11426
    Since 5/2/2007
    now if it was your GrandSON and his mate I bet the guy would have A. Run out of things to talk about and B. Fallen asleep after 1 AM!

    LOL.

    You just nailed it!

    Sylvia

    coffee_black Re: I Retract My Statements posted Sat, 03 Jan 2009 16:01:00 GMT (1/3/2009) edit


    United States Massachusetts

    Post 1686 of 2274
    Since 2/6/2002

    That's awsome Snowbird... you should be very proud of her!

    Coffee

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