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People dont get disfellowshipped anymore

    foolsparadise People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 08:33:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit



    Post 47 of 47
    Since 7/6/2009

    They are announced as no longer being one of jehovahs witnesses. Why then do people still shun them if they are not disfellowshipped. Witnesses talk to non jws all the time, so we should be allowed to talk to members who are announced as no longer one of jehovahs witnesses. They are not being announced as disfellowshipped.

    highdose Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 08:40:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit



    Post 316 of 368
    Since 6/6/2009

    i have no insider knowledge anymore but i suspect its to do with somthing legal. Possibly the DF'd person could sue if annoced as DF'd? But the R&F still understand what is to be done with them...!

    2112 Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 10:42:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit

    United States Florida

    Post 294 of 295
    Since 11/29/2005

    They still shun because it is the same thing to them. The anouncment changed for legal reasons. I have no proff of this but it makes since, they can tell governments that "we don't kick people out, they leave on their own." But to the R&F the result is the same. 

    Black Sheep Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:04:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit


    New Zealand

    Post 3686 of 3817
    Since 8/8/2003

    Go to this Sunday's WT study.  "Be Obedient and Courageous as Christ Was"

    DF is discussed.

    Scully Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:33:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit




    Post 15524 of 15529
    Since 11/2/2001

    Announcing that someone "is no longer one of Jehovah's Witnesses" is code for "you must shun this person" to every JW in attendance.  There is no admission of Judicial™ action (DFing) and the larger insinuation is that the individual left voluntarily (DAd) and therefore is to be viewed as an Apostate™.

    fokyc Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:38:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit


    United Kingdom England, Gloucestershire

    Post 1019 of 1033
    Since 5/30/2006

     

    It doesn't make any difference what is announced from the platform; IF you are Dis-fellowshipped you are shunned, IF you Dis-associate yourself you are shunned.

    The elders also make sure, in 'discrete' conversations, that everybody knows the exact situation to ensure that happens.

    fokyc

    MissingLink Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 16:55:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit


    Ireland

    Post 2273 of 2311
    Since 9/18/2007

    I think it's more clever than that.  This is getting them used to shunning people who are "no longer JWs" so they will end up also shunning ones who just fade without a DF or DA.  Evil bastards.

    AllTimeJeff Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 16:59:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit


    United States

    Post 3643 of 3846
    Since 11/9/2006

    Jehovah's Witnesses are still shunned. They used to call it "disfellowshipping". For legal reasons, they simply say that so and so is no longer a JW.

    Don't fall for their bait and swich code words. Shunning is the key, regardless of what they want to call it. Scientologists call their version of shunning "disconnecting". Big deal, its still the same, shunning over made up reasons to keep control over their little flock of indoctrinated followers.

    shopaholic Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 17:40:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit


    United States

    Post 910 of 923
    Since 7/21/2007

    foolsparadise, you bring up a good point...never thought of it that way.  To JWs...its all the same, you're disfellowshipped.  Even if its for legal reason, they should say what they mean. The announcement in its current form at face value simply means the person has decided to change their religion...and we all know there's nothing wrong with that

    Bonnie_Clyde Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 18:36:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit


    United States

    Post 1310 of 1324
    Since 8/9/2003

    So does anyone know of a witness who has been reprimanded for continuing to speak to someone who is "no longer one of Jehovah's Witnesses?" - arguing that the announcement said nothing about being disfellowshipped?

    Billy the Ex-Bethelite Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 18:49:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit


    Virgin Islands (U.S.)

    Post 2179 of 2277
    Since 11/29/2007

    "So-and-so has been disfellowshipped for conduct unbecoming a Christian." How many of us remember that?

    How many remember the years when an unbaptized publisher who got involved in wrongdoing was "marked" and treated the same as disfellowshipped, even though they had never been dunked?

    It's all semantics. The wording is changed for legal reasons and so they don't sound like a cult. But everything really is the same, because they are a cult.

    "Witnesses talk to non jws all the time, so we should be allowed to talk to members who are announced as no longer one of jehovahs witnesses. They are not being announced as disfellowshipped."

    Of course that's true. However, if the dubs see you publicly talking to someone that is "announced as no longer being one of jehovahs witnesses", guess what happens? You get "announced as no longer being one of jehovahs witnesses".

    zions watchman Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 21:10:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit

    United States North Carolina

    Post 79 of 79
    Since 11/8/2005

    I know that since I left no announcment has be made I don't think... but my FAMILY sure does SHUN ME. Ani't it good I guess when I die the Money I have will have to go to some good charity.

    SirNose586 Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 21:17:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit


    United States California

    Post 3389 of 3454
    Since 7/6/2006

    In theory, you're right, foolsparadise. But we all know it's still code for shunning.

    DrJohnStMark Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 21:26:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit



    Post 23 of 67
    Since 10/15/2009

    My no longer being a JW was never announced at the kingdom hall (officially I'm out after signing a form long time ago) but I'm shunned in any case. They know. Only a few members of the congregation say hello... some time ago a couple of pioneers even switched (in an illegal way) to the other side of the street in the city when they saw me coming.

    drew sagan Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 21:45:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit


    United States

    Post 4182 of 4210
    Since 8/16/2005

    Has the Watchtower ceased using the word 'disfellowship' in its literature? I remember it fequently being used when I was in (left in 07)

    cantleave Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 22:12:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit



    Post 879 of 962
    Since 6/25/2009

    It is still called disfellowshipping or disassociating if you leave on your own accord. The result is still the same, no contact with other witnesses even family ,unless there is an emergency. The announcement is benign for legal reasons, and IMO to make the congregation think the worst of the person. It all load of controlling measures to keep the rank and file from finding the Truth about the Troof.

    stillin Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 22:25:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit



    Post 190 of 209
    Since 7/20/2008

    my experience with the whole thing is, not that anybody is being "disciplined" and all hope that they "turn around"and return to the fold. My experience is that the real agenda is "he's not one of us. Maybe if we ignore him he will go away altogether."

    Rumspringa Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Sat, 07 Nov 2009 22:45:00 GMT (11/7/2009) edit



    Post 6 of 11
    Since 6/19/2009

    Yeah, no more disfellowshipping as I understand it.

     

    When my father (who's an elder) announced that they were formally shunning me, he also begged me to "formally dissasociate" myself from the org.

     

    I said, "why, I'll just let em DF me". He stated that policy had changed......then begged me again to DA. Seeing how pissed he was that I wasn't going to do that.....has given me a nice warm feeling all over, & renewed my enthusiasm for kicking the org in the bag.

     

    r.

    skeeter1 Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Tue, 10 Nov 2009 00:56:00 GMT (11/10/2009) edit


    United States

    Post 2326 of 2329
    Since 12/3/2005

    Yeah, no more disfellowshipping as I understand it.

    Could it be an attempt by WT Legal to assimilate into Russia?  The Russian government does not like the WTS because of its disfellowshipping and shunning.  

    Remember that WT/Awake! over the summer about the right of everyone to change their religion without consequences from thier community?  I understand that this magazine was written just for the WTS Legal Department to use as a handout at a "worldly" conference of Russian/government leaders in Russia.

    Could it be an attempt to get around coercion and the blood issue?

    Hmmmm.  Interesting development, me thinks.

    Skeeter

    Lillith26 Re: People dont get disfellowshipped anymore posted Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:26:00 GMT (11/10/2009) edit



    Post 534 of 610
    Since 5/26/2009

    I remember they made the announcemnet about changing how they would in future announce a person to be DF ( Feburary/March this year...?).

    "So an so is no longer one of Jehovah's Witnesses"- so it would not be formally made public whether the person DA'd or was DF'd-( like there is a difference in how you are taught there how to treat So&so........)

    The lady I was studing with was very quick to tell me that is very rarely that a person is DF'd and not be too concerned about it, "it is for their own good, truley".... (What a load of CRAP!)

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