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    jamiebowers 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:24:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    United States Ohio

    Post 2687 of 2861
    Since 1/27/2007

    ...when I had my dear old cat, Puss Puss put down this morning. I had her for 18 years. Last night I bathed her and used the blow dryer and brush on her matted fur, and she didn't even try to fight me. I knew then that it was time for her to go. We saved her life three times; when I adopted her as a stray, when we paid for very expensive exploratory surgery that resulted in a hysterectomy and when we paid for very expensive supplements to combat a severe case of megacolon.

    She was a very loving cat to everyone except me...probably because I was the one who administered her medication, cleaned her bed, litter box, bathed and brushed her, etc., and she fought me like a tigress every time until the last time.

    My dear husband and I have been crying on and off all day. I've never lived with anyone longer, and I miss her.

    She's the one in my avatar.

     

    Satanus Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:28:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit




    Post 16972 of 17135
    Since 8/31/2001

    Oh my.  Sorry to hear that.

    S

    Robdar Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:28:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    United States

    Post 8288 of 8558
    Since 8/12/2001

    I am so sorry for your loss.  

    Our dear pets have a way of getting into our hearts and I thank God for their love and companionship.   

    (((((Jamie)))))

    AudeSapere Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 04:46:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    United States California

    Post 3340 of 3382
    Since 2/2/2006

    ... and we always remember them.

    I was just talking about my kitty today.  He's been gone for over 3 years.

    Sorry to hear this sad news.

    -Aude.

    worldtraveller Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    Canada British Columbia

    Post 1371 of 1371
    Since 8/26/2007

    I believe that the only cure for what is ailing you right now is to replace your pet with one in more need.  Your shelter can provide you with another soulmate.  In our house, we just wait patiently and animals simply appear at our door.  We have two cats that get on each others nerves, so we decided to make it worse by throwing a hairy teacup chihuahua into the mix. (all were newborns)  The chasing around the entire house all day is a sight to see.  The dog is such a shit disturber.

    On a sad note, we had to put to rest an older cat we rescued many years ago. She had a bad habit of chewing herself 'till she bled everywhere.  Her name was "Tribble".  Looked like one of those tribbles from that old episode of Star Trek.  We had her for about 10 years.

    My condolences to you .   Bill.

     

    Casper Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 05:29:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    United States

    Post 1850 of 1883
    Since 4/6/2001

     

     

    I had my dear old cat, Puss Puss put down this morning. I had her for 18 years.

     

    I'm so sorry.

    I remember several months ago, you and I found out on a thread that we both had older cats named Puss Puss... I lost mine 2 months ago, she was also 18. 

    My heart goes out to you, we get so attached.  Just yesterday I could have sworn I heard her meow.

    (((Hugs))) 

     

    Cas

     

     

    BabaYaga Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 05:42:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit




    Post 3606 of 3674
    Since 8/30/2006

    Aw, Hon, I'm so sorry.  I know how that feels.  They are family, no doubt about it.

    Rest in peace as only a cat knows how, and pounce with utter abandon on all the little angel mice, Puss Puss!

    Love,
    Baba.

    PEC Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 05:49:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    United States California

    Post 3157 of 3169
    Since 1/19/2007

    Sorry for the loss of Puss Puss.  (((((Jamie)))))

    Philip

     

    flipper Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 05:55:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    United States California

    Post 8995 of 9138
    Since 3/7/2007

     

      JAMIE- I'm so sorry for the loss of your cat. Hugs to you and your husband from my wife and me. We've had cats and dogs for years and it's really hard losing a pet you are close to for so many years. Hang in there , it takes time . Sincerely, Mr. Flipper

    Confession Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 06:12:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    United States Arizona

    Post 2167 of 2171
    Since 6/29/2004

    Love to you.

    I love my cat too.

    Confession

    Dagney Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 06:26:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit

    United States California

    Post 2464 of 2493
    Since 8/14/2006

    So sorry for the loss.  She was a good cat.

    wantstoleave Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 08:24:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit



    Post 632 of 744
    Since 4/10/2009

    Aw :( So sorry to hear about your cat ((hugs)).....At least you gave her a comfortable life with lots of love. Now she's at peace.

    wha happened? Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 08:29:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    United States California

    Post 3914 of 4015
    Since 10/2/2004

    This is a very tough subject. My wife had to bury her cat from her youth. The idea of puting her down took all three of her family to do it.

    It's been a few years and we are now in a position to recieve a few more feline roommates

    Newborn Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 08:31:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit




    Post 485 of 700
    Since 7/18/2008

    Oh so sorry to hear that...since I got my cat last week I can now relate to your pain coz I'm already afraid something will happen to her and I love her so much!

    I'm sure Puss Puss had a great and long life with you. Puss means Kiss in Swedish

    LouBelle Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 08:36:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    South Africa

    Post 3907 of 4005
    Since 5/19/2005

    From one cat lover to another - I'm sorry for your loss.  It's okay to cry.

    wha happened? Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 08:40:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    United States California

    Post 3917 of 4015
    Since 10/2/2004

    we have some candidates we hope to adopt. I spoiled my wife so much and the fact that I will be living with three very spoiled females is a dreadful fate to meet.

    compound complex Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 08:46:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit




    Post 6717 of 6818
    Since 8/4/2006


    Sorry, jamie.

    On my walk 8 hours ago I saw a replica of my dearly departed guy tom orange fat cat. He was sitting in the middle of the street staring at me [you know how they do].

    I miss him just as you do your sweety. So sorry. 

    Love,

    CoCo Cat

     

    Snoozy Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 09:15:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit


    United States Missouri

    Post 1301 of 1334
    Since 11/3/2001

    Wha happened...my brother lives in L.A. and he has a few cats he wants ot get rid of...interested?

     

    Snoozy

    life is to short Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 09:40:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit



    Post 43 of 92
    Since 8/22/2009

    I am so sorry Jamie. I remember when our cat had to be put down at the age of 17 he was almost 18. Just thinking of it three and a half years latter makes me cry now. I loved him so much. He got me through so much in the JW world. When my husband was always gone to elders meetings when we were first married Henry was there for me. 

    He was my word in so many ways unlike humans he alway forgave me and showed me love. Our little fury friends are what makes life worth living. Like Mrs. Flipper calls them little angles and I believe they are.

    I wish I could say it get easier as time goes on but each one is so different that the hole they leave in your heart is always there but time does help heal some.

    My heart goes out to you. LITS

    Out at Last! Re: 18-Year Relationship Ended Today... posted Tue, 03 Nov 2009 09:56:00 GMT (11/3/2009) edit



    Post 131 of 136
    Since 8/29/2009

         I know that was hard but I think it was time. She has been through alot with you, memories that you can keep. Take care.

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