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Were you JW squealer?

    asilentone Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 11:33:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit




    Post 2421 of 3890
    Since 3/25/2008

    My answer is Yes!  I do not do that anymore!!! 

    trueblue Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 13:01:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit




    Post 4 of 336
    Since 6/29/2009

    Do you mean a JW sqealer like some one that tells on other JW members to the elders or a JW member that likes going to gossip hall to gossip?

    Or someone that tells on JW's?

    There is this old man at our local congregation that says things about me that are not true, he said things to the elders and the elders brought us together and I told them that I thought the Bible say that if a brother have a problem with another brother that the brother is to take the mater up with the brother alone first. The elders tell me ya but you are bigger than him and you scare him.

    That my dear friend is crap and I stay away from that.

    I also found out there was many other things they were saying about me or it really is a gossip hall during our little meeting because that old man never new me way back when so someone else must have been saying things to get the seenile bastered started.

    There is a lot of things I have heard about them I could rpeat thay would really get some crap started but I am not a gossiper if that is the question.

    A good way to get some crap started is by stirring an old turd

    But I do have some facts that I was abused as a child by more than one in fact more than three JW's and I know that no JW protected me as a child and they will not help another child or help me fight child abuse.

    My answer is yes I would go directly to child abuse authorities if I suspect another member of child abuse.

    I believe there is a connection now between child abuse, the JW's and my brothers death.

    My brother told me he wanted to be an elder so he would be able to help the children because there is not enough help for the children.

    That was a couple of years before my brother took his own life. 

     

    asilentone Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 13:23:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit




    Post 2423 of 3890
    Since 3/25/2008

    I am so sorry to hear about your brother.  I was a very self righteous brother that would report brothers and sisters to the elders. If I had to go back in the past, I would change all of that.

    leavingwt Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 13:27:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit


    United States Mississippi

    Post 2898 of 6477
    Since 6/16/2008

    When I thought that God wanted me to be a squealer, I was a squealer.

    I was a 100% thought-reformed cult member.

    I have forgiven myself for this nonsense.

    Confession and spying on members are both very common within high-control groups.

     

    trueblue Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:07:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit




    Post 5 of 336
    Since 6/29/2009

    Hi it is me again,

    Got me thinking again about why the JWs disfellowship other members that are doing things or they think are doing things that are detestable to Jehovah.

    I know bad association spoil useful habbits. Bla Bla Bla

    What if the desfellowed isn't trying to push it on someone else.

    I knew this one fellow he was desfellowed several times, I think he realized he was better off desfellowed so he didn't have to listen to the crap I mean all the gossip.

    I am sorry to tell you this he also died, he was ran over by a train. Enough of taliking about death and I am sorry about that.

    I will tell you something that may sound a little funny to ya, may-be that will make us all feel better.

    One time I left the local congregation to go to another.

    I was tired of all the gossip so I moved to another town and got a differant job, thought I would get settled and and come walking into another local congregation fresh with no rummers.

    Well it did not take long for the cult to come looking for me, I did not leave a forwarding address ( you would think they would get the message I never left a forwarding address) but anyway they heard where I was working and they came there. Ya they followed me to work and scared the crap out of all the other employees, that is not so funny in itself only thinking back on it, you see I was not there at the time I was running some arrands, I wish you all could have seen the looks on the other employees faces including the manager.

    I thought may-be a gohst had just come through there and they all told me the JW's were there and I said ya so, and the manager said ya and we thought they were the mofia, I say what did you think they would do? ( PULL OUT A BIBLE ) be careful he is armed,

    Tired of the Hypocrisy Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:47:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit


    United States California

    Post 1897 of 2005
    Since 1/29/2008

    Hell No.  Even back in the times when I was zealous in the field circus, I never EVER ratted anyone out.  I once went into "Goldies" (an adult video/book store).  On my way out I ran into a fellow jw.  We simply acted like we never saw each other.  So what if I was returning "Caught from Behind 33" and he was looking for grape flavored Joy Jelly, a rat I never was.

    blondie Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:52:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit


    United States

    Post 27201 of 29309
    Since 5/28/2001

    I did tell someone that I had seen them smoking and left it up to them to say something...I was just one person.  They did go to the elders and were privately reproved and did not hold it against me.  That was the one and only time, it made me uncomfortable.

    sooner7nc Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 15:59:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit


    United States

    Post 461 of 918
    Since 10/30/2007

    No way.  I should of had a gangster nickname like "Mikey Tightlips" or something similar, because you could basically get away with murder around me. Probably stems from the fact that I was so afraid of losing my friends at the time.

     

    sooner

    crapola Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 16:36:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit


    United States Oklahoma

    Post 454 of 992
    Since 1/23/2008

    Only one time,, many years ago I saw a man smoke in the front of a Drs. office and before that I had seen him throw a lit cig. out his car window. I happened to be following him and his wife home from a meeting. Anyway they both denied it even thought my daughter saw the same thing. Nothing was ever done. I felt bad ratting him out, but thought that was what I had to do at the time.

    sooner7nc Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 16:41:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit


    United States

    Post 465 of 918
    Since 10/30/2007

    Only one time,, many years ago I saw a man smoke in the front of a Drs. office and before that I had seen him throw a lit cig. out his car window. I happened to be following him and his wife home from a meeting. Anyway they both denied it even thought my daughter saw the same thing. Nothing was ever done. I felt bad ratting him out, but thought that was what I had to do at the time.

     

    I remember that. We were in the Cutlass Salon.

    rockmehardplace Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:17:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit




    Post 93 of 309
    Since 5/21/2009

    one time me and another brother caught an elder smoking.  told him he had a week to come clean. he did but nothing. caught him again and told him to come clean again. again he did and they did nothing cause he was an elder.

    one time my wife found out a sister was working for a strip club. my wife was working part time and some guys she worked with had a bachelor party for one of the guys in the office one weekend. one of the girls in the office the next week mentioned that there was photos going around between the guys from the party.  my wife happened to see them and in one of the pictures was a sister in a bikini sitting on a guy's lap. she asked the guys who it was.  they all said she was a stripper at the party. she da'd before anything else could be done.  she was "on the edge" as it was anyway.

    the one that sits funny with me though is we were helping an old sister out with cleaning her house.  someone always picked her up and took her to meetings, but she made it clear that friday nights she was to be left alone.  turned out, they saw her coming out of a bingo parlor.  she played every friday night.  went on for years it turned out.  well, when one of the brothers approached her about it, she told him it was her own money and her own business and no one else's.  sure enough, no one said any more to her and she played every friday

    villabolo Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:27:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit




    Post 407 of 1916
    Since 3/9/2009

    No, but I and my friend were once squealed on for watching Dawn of the Dead.

    OUTLAW Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:31:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit


    Canada British Columbia

    Post 11903 of 15289
    Since 10/11/2001

    We`re going to the Elders!!...........Pig Pig Pig ......................................................LOL!!...OUTLAW





    mouthy Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:38:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit


    Canada Ontario

    Post 12658 of 14022
    Since 11/22/2001

    Well of course!!!! It was our duty, It was a LOVING thing to do

    to get them to repent. Remember ? 1st. you go to the one that is "sinning"
    then if he dont listen, you take another along with you to approach sinner
    if they dont listen to that, you take it to the congregation... So I was a well
    trained  robot..
     I reported Harold Boa for smoking did all I was told then he was D/F  trouble
    was he got cancer of the throat, was reinstated ,& thanked me profusly for
    helping him to live for ever on the earth... He died.

     I am so sorry now.....

     

     

     

     

     

    shamus100 Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:48:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit




    Post 2717 of 5248
    Since 2/10/2008

    Yes I was a squealer... turns out I'm they're worst enemy now, though. 

    Just for you, assilintonne,

    Love, Shamus. 

    QuestioningEverything Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:56:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit


    United States Michigan

    Post 144 of 294
    Since 6/17/2008

    Yes,(turning red from great embarrassment) I was.  I'm so ashamed now that I was. 

    viva Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 19:02:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit




    Post 113 of 117
    Since 3/10/2009

    Never squealed on anyone.  I lived a double-life for quite a while, there was a lot of dirt out there on me, I certainly wouldn't judge others.  I was squealed on many times for petty things.  If only they knew what I was really doing.

    Dagney Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Tue, 30 Jun 2009 19:06:00 GMT (6/30/2009) edit


    United States California

    Post 2244 of 2627
    Since 8/14/2006

    NEVER!

    cameo-d Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Sun, 20 Sep 2009 18:42:00 GMT (9/20/2009) edit




    Post 4695 of 5832
    Since 7/30/2008

    dissed Re: Were you JW squealer? posted Sun, 20 Sep 2009 18:53:00 GMT (9/20/2009) edit




    Post 155 of 1607
    Since 9/1/2009

    Like mouthy.....I was a loyal Nazi JW turning in everyone. Remember, I did it out of love. I wonder why no one invited me to parties???

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