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Catholic Funeral - Rosary and Viewing

    Gram posted Thu, 12 Mar 2009 05:18:00 GMT(3/12/2009)

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    Tonight I attended a Rosary following the viewing. Tomorrow will be the funeral followed by the burial and then a reception.

    It was quite interesting and very different from JW funerals. It was held at the funeral home. The viewing was open casket. The rosary is a series of prayers led by a Priest. Then a little time inviting anyone to come up and speak about the deceased. All the time the casket was open. It was not sad at all. Actually quite uplifting. Anyone was invited to get up and say something if they wished. (My husband did. He has known this person since childhood.)

    Tomorrow will be the church funeral. That should be interesting as well.

    F AudeSapere posted Thu, 12 Mar 2009 05:36:00 GMT(3/12/2009)

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    Sorry for your loss.

    I went to my first non-jw funeral in 1998. I was amazed at how incredibly personal it was. The entire event was focused on the deceased.

    Really respectful, loving, sincere, life-affirming.

    Some people had pre-arranged (and announced) readings or speaches. Others were invited to say a few words if they desired.

    Such a different experience from any that have ever been held at a Kingdom Hall or conducted by a JW elder.

    -Aude.

    F Snoozy posted Thu, 12 Mar 2009 06:40:00 GMT(3/12/2009)

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    I went to my first Cathollic memorial for a family friend a while back..I even posted about it ..

    One thing I can say about it..it was long...and I never saw so many what I called rituals..and what seemed like chanting..actually they were just saying amen or repeating what the priest said ( a lot) ..then they would stand up then they would sit down..then they would stand up and pray..then they would kneel and pray....then they went to the front and some partook of the bread and wine..some didn't.

    they also had family and friends get up and say something about him..

    The priest told a joke that the decease had told him while playing golf together..
    He asked the Priest if he knew how to win at golf..the Priest said "How?"..the deceased told him "Lie"..the Priest thought that was funny...I thought the Priest was funny for thinking that was funny..being a Priest and all..

    It was quite interesting..he was cremated so they decided to do the memorial in the church..he also donated his body to a medical college here in Missouri..so there was no body. Afterwards we were invited to the basement for refreshments..it was very nice. I got to meet a lot of nice people.

    If I can find the link I will come back and post it here..

    edited to add link:

    http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/experiences/171162/1/Catholic-Funerals

    Snoozy..

    ps..Let us know how the Funeral was...

    M jws posted Thu, 12 Mar 2009 19:19:00 GMT(3/12/2009)

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    I attended a Catholic funeral several years ago at the church. It was my first non-JW funeral. I was fascinated. From the time I entered, it was different. From the outside, the building seems rather plain. But inside, it seemed so full of religion. It was so unlike the boring sterile Kingdom Halls I went to. There were statues, paintings, and stained glass. So full of tradition and like Snoozy said, so full of ritual.

    As the first time seeing it, I was fascinated, like an anthropologist observing a tribal ritual in a rain forest village. And some parts didn't seem too different. There was one part where they let some sort of smoking cup swing above the coffin. It was like it was some magic potion they were waving over the deceased to scare away evil spirits. Maybe that's exactly what it was.

    I think as a first time experience, it was great. If I had to see it all the time and understood it, I'd think it's a bunch of naseating BS.

    Unlike the JWs, they did talk about the diseased and I found myself so much more connected to the person than I was before (he was only a guy I kind-of knew from work). It was uplifting.

    I also attended a Baptist funeral. That's a whole different experience. It was at a large Baptist church with the jumbotrons in various places and the organs and just the right amount of comfort to put you in that state of awe for brainwashing. Overall, the church seemed kind of sterile too. Except for the cross and the stained glass, it could have been a performing arts theater. It had a more commonly understandable format. They talked about the deceased, about heaven, prayed, etc. People came up and said things. It was a happy medium between the sales-pitch JW funeral and the rituals that only a Catholic would understand.

    Kenneson posted Fri, 13 Mar 2009 01:32:00 GMT(3/13/2009)

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    "The smoking cup swing above the coffin." I'm a Catholic, so it's funny for me to hear it described that way.

    It's called a censer or thurible. A piece of coal is placed in the censer and then incense is put on it, which make all that smoke.

    It is used to symbolize prayer rising to God (Ps. 141:2 and Rev. 8:33-5) for the person who has died.

    White Dove posted Fri, 13 Mar 2009 01:50:00 GMT(3/13/2009)

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    He was cremated and then the body went to a college?

    F Snoozy posted Sun, 15 Mar 2009 16:02:00 GMT(3/15/2009)

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    OMG White dove..no I meant he was donated to a medical college..I must have had my deceased hubby in my subconscious mind talking about funerals.. He was cremated..I can see me doing that because he was on my mind so much when I watched this womans husband slowly die..a sad time. We hugged and cried together for our losses...

    Snoozy...

    M garybuss posted Sun, 15 Mar 2009 16:18:00 GMT(3/15/2009)

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    I've attended Catholic weddings and many Catholic funerals including a couple that were High Masses at the Cathedral in Sioux Falls. As far as religious services, Catholic is my favorite. I'm extremely appreciative of my Catholic friends.

    Ohio Nana posted Sun, 15 Mar 2009 16:19:00 GMT(3/15/2009)

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    I come from the other direction. I was raised by Catholic step father and all his for generations Catholic family(nice people)but I was never a Catholic.I attended all the weddings(wow great parties)and funerals so they were just normal to me. My first JW memorial was a few months ago a lady I knew died suddenly at 57 and I was amazed it wasn't even about her and no one cried and I came away feeling empty and sadder than when I went.No comfort in it at all and that started by thinking about what was I doing studying to be a JW and then I found this site and woke up.

    Yes lots of ritual in anything Catholic but at least they talk about the person who died and their life etc and don't try to convert anyone at the funeral service.

    O.N.

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